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Questions to ask a stranger

Questions to ask a stranger

The hardest part of meeting someone new is what comes after “hi”. Here are 40 questions that actually start conversations. On ChatStranger you also get a new question of the day, one tap away in every chat.

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Easy openers

  • What’s a small thing that made you smile today?
  • Morning person or night owl?
  • Tea or coffee? Defend your choice.
  • What are you up to this weekend?
  • What’s the last song you had on repeat?
  • What’s your go-to snack at 2 AM?
  • Rain or sunshine?
  • What show are you watching right now?
  • Cats or dogs?
  • What’s your favourite way to spend a Sunday?

Fun and silly

  • Superpower: fly or be invisible?
  • If your life was a movie, what would it be called?
  • What’s the weirdest food combination you secretly love?
  • What’s a trend you just don’t understand?
  • If you opened a shop, what would it sell?
  • What’s your favourite emoji and what does it say about you?
  • Which fictional world would you want to live in?
  • What’s a word you use way too much?
  • What did you believe as a kid that was hilariously wrong?
  • What game were you unbeatable at in school?

Get to know them

  • What’s one thing you’re proud of this year?
  • What’s the best advice you’ve ever been given?
  • What did you want to be when you were 10?
  • What’s a hobby you want to start?
  • If money didn’t matter, what would your dream job be?
  • What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self?
  • What’s the kindest thing a stranger has done for you?
  • What’s a habit you’re trying to build?
  • What’s a goal you have for next month?
  • What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?

Travel, food and places

  • Beach holiday or mountain holiday?
  • What’s the best street food you’ve ever had?
  • If you could live in any country for a year, where?
  • What’s the most underrated city you’ve been to?
  • What’s a place you want to visit before you turn 30?
  • What’s your comfort food?
  • What’s your favourite festival and why?
  • What’s your favourite thing about where you live?
  • Which decade would you time-travel to?
  • What’s your signature dish, or the one thing you can cook?

Keep it safe

Great questions are about opinions and stories, not personal details. Never ask for, or share, a full name, phone number, address, school or social media handle.

Questions

What is a good first message to a stranger?
A light, open question works better than “hi”. Try “What’s a small thing that made you smile today?” or today’s question of the day.
Where can I practise these questions?
On ChatStranger: start a free 1-on-1 chat, or join the Lounge room where everyone answers the question of the day.

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