Questions to ask a stranger
Questions to ask a stranger
The hardest part of meeting someone new is what comes after “hi”. Here are 40 questions that actually start conversations. On ChatStranger you also get a new question of the day, one tap away in every chat.
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Easy openers
- What’s a small thing that made you smile today?
- Morning person or night owl?
- Tea or coffee? Defend your choice.
- What are you up to this weekend?
- What’s the last song you had on repeat?
- What’s your go-to snack at 2 AM?
- Rain or sunshine?
- What show are you watching right now?
- Cats or dogs?
- What’s your favourite way to spend a Sunday?
Fun and silly
- Superpower: fly or be invisible?
- If your life was a movie, what would it be called?
- What’s the weirdest food combination you secretly love?
- What’s a trend you just don’t understand?
- If you opened a shop, what would it sell?
- What’s your favourite emoji and what does it say about you?
- Which fictional world would you want to live in?
- What’s a word you use way too much?
- What did you believe as a kid that was hilariously wrong?
- What game were you unbeatable at in school?
Get to know them
- What’s one thing you’re proud of this year?
- What’s the best advice you’ve ever been given?
- What did you want to be when you were 10?
- What’s a hobby you want to start?
- If money didn’t matter, what would your dream job be?
- What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self?
- What’s the kindest thing a stranger has done for you?
- What’s a habit you’re trying to build?
- What’s a goal you have for next month?
- What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
Travel, food and places
- Beach holiday or mountain holiday?
- What’s the best street food you’ve ever had?
- If you could live in any country for a year, where?
- What’s the most underrated city you’ve been to?
- What’s a place you want to visit before you turn 30?
- What’s your comfort food?
- What’s your favourite festival and why?
- What’s your favourite thing about where you live?
- Which decade would you time-travel to?
- What’s your signature dish, or the one thing you can cook?
Keep it safe
Great questions are about opinions and stories, not personal details. Never ask for, or share, a full name, phone number, address, school or social media handle.
Questions
- What is a good first message to a stranger?
- A light, open question works better than “hi”. Try “What’s a small thing that made you smile today?” or today’s question of the day.
- Where can I practise these questions?
- On ChatStranger: start a free 1-on-1 chat, or join the Lounge room where everyone answers the question of the day.
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